One Bowl of Congee
July 28, 2026, Roots and Refuge Retreat at BCBS When I was 19, I was planning to go to Times Square to celebrate New Year’s Eve. Learning about my plan, my father looked worried, “If possible, don’t go,” he said. “You never know when the crowd could turn irrational and you could be in danger.” His response surprised me and was uncharacteristic of my dad. He was adventurous and rarely discouraged me from anything. It’s only in the last years of his life, when he finally wrote down many of his stories, that I finally connected his response to his experience during the Cultural Revolution. At the age of 18, full of passion and idealism, responding to Mao’s call to “send ‘educated youth’ to the countryside and learn from the farmers”, he volunteered to go to a remote region of Guangdong province with his classmates. Outgoing and charismatic, my father was soon appointed as a student leader. In this land of virgin forests, full of red maple trees and fresh air, they sang, cooked, and …








